There is discussion here and on the podcast addressing the pros and cons of having the relationship of landlord while also living on site.

I'm looking for amount due, name and address of the owner, parcel address and/or number.

While i have the leverage of his deposit and him on the lease is there away to address other damages?

This would be my first deal and I have over 100 address.

Mailing address, emails, phone numbers, etc. can anyone out there help me pleaseeee?

The notice to the landlord shall be accompanied by either: (i) a copy of a valid order of protection issued by a court pursuant to Chapter 50B or 50C of the General Statutes, other than an ex parte order, (ii) a criminal order that restrains a person from contact with a protected tenant, or (iii) a valid Address Confidentiality Program card issued pursuant to G.S. 15C-4 to the victim or a minor member of the tenant's household.

However your family member would still need to pay capital gains tax on annual payments so that doesn't address that concern.

This generally means that the taxpayer identifies either the address of the property or its legal description.

Only problem is how can I obtain the address book for the complex to send everybody a mailer?

I felt like the topic was poorly addressed, but they did say one thing.