Even if I purchased the property with conventional mortgage the $ on $ would still be strong, 15-17% with it yielding $1000-$1100 pure cashflow per month, but I would really only be interested in this deal if I could BRRRR it with hard money and pull out all or most of my $$ invested. 

I am not sure if her health condition is purely physical or if it's adversely affecting her mental faculties, but if you have a strong relationship and rapport you can have a candid and open conversation about your intentions and demonstrate any way you can help (through deeds, financial support, etc). 

His stance is purely precautionary.

It also means transferring much of the property management and household management on to the household members themselves b/c responsibility breeds pride, ownership, and deep joy. 

This physical detachment from my money and the real folks that manage it, brings me no joy.

Our goals are being met, results exceed our expectation.Bianca Rivera is a joy to work with!

You are not living in the property, it's purely an investment. 

Or as if sinkholes are a purely Florida problem.

Not only is it required to be successful but it is truly one of the greatest joys within the job. 

@Eric Armstrong Well then,that would purely be up to your private/ hard money lender.