Keep it simple, buy a home using less than 75% of BAH if you can and repeat each time your duty station changes.

Yes, I would notify them that they have not been living up to their abilities and their duties as a qualified property manager, and they have been dropping the ball (giving examples) then let them know in the same notification (email and the do a follow up call after the email).

I did not consider potential extensions due to active duty status.

She owns her own S-Corp business and I don't have a regular job, aside from a little consulting here and there, managing our local properties/managing PMs non-locally, working on real estate investing growth, and covering family-duty slack (2 kids) when my wife is extra busy.  

Plus, without desk duties and with favorable splits, there is lower time and financial commitment to start.

This could be vital if let's say they found rare minerals under their lot.

Property management duties can vary.  

Any questions hit me a DM on here I’m active duty Air Force.

I'm active duty as well so I can tell you it's possible, but it's not easy!

We have both recently separated from active duty and since we no longer have the consistent paychecks to get more loans approved, we are seeking other creative ways to fund our next acquisition!