I appreciate the feedback you have provided and look forward to further conversations with you.

My first loan is a traditional loan, so I was under the impression that after living in my place for a year I could then qualify as a first-time home buyer again (at least I believe I had this conversation with my lender last year). 

If it were me, before I started talking numbers and making offers, I'd have a longer conversation with the seller to see how motivated he really is.

The frustration is real becoz It's so hard to get live conversation with these people.

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I would have a conversation with him and see what can be mutually worked out.

I would have a conversation with your brother-in-law on what’s going on in his life that he cannot make the payment.

However, not enough without financing to make this house complete and solidify what would be a good ROI when we would decide to move on and actually initiate conversation with the owners.Any information, advice, or comments regarding your experiences or personnel you've worked with to utilize a VA renovation loan would be super.

I’m seeking any professional and/or legal information on forming a Real Estate Wholesaling Contract with Doctrine of Equitable Conversion based in Pennsylvania and New York State.

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