Is it best to do it from here through an estate agent (which might be very expensive…there is apparently only luxury estate agents on the internet) or can you take the money to Mexico legally without big losses/expenses (transfer it to a Mexican account) and then buy the house there?

Get some Family Counseling (for yourself first and then the Mrs. later)They will charge a sliding scale (what you can afford--maybe free).Look someone up on the internet who is close and that you think you can trust and make a phone call.With COVID you can probably get counseling over the phone.Here's a link that might help: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/tx/brookelandGood Luck! 

My job allows me to work from anywhere in the world that has internet.

Tuesday at the myescambia website forward sash caresPaper applications will be made available at the following locations starting Tuesday for those who do not have internet access:Escambia County Neighborhood Enterprise Division, 221 Palafox Place, Suite 200 (Monday through Friday, 8 .m. to 5 p.m.)Brownsville Community Center, 3200 W.

With an internet connection you should be on your way soon.Truthfully, I have lived and invested in the TampaBay area for 2 decades and find it difficult to get a 'good deal.'

Anyone on the internet that you don’t know who’s asking for money up front and promising to do a hard money loan at 6% interest should be viewed with suspicion. 

I'm starting work soon on a Cargo Ship where I will be away from up to 6 Months at most and without cell or internet for about a week at most.

However, I keep reading posts/internet searches where people are saying you do NOT need a loan of "any kind" to purchase a property as a wholesaler, that you simply "put it under contract".

HUDAsstAnimalNC1-28-2020.pdf From the HUD Guidelines in Jan. 2020: "In HUD’s experience, such documentation from the internet is not, by itself, sufficient to reliably establish that an individual has a non-observable disability or disability-related need for an assistance animal.""

You may end up starting where they left off.Sometimes cut and run is cheaper.DISCLAIMER: Not legal or legal advice, just the mindless ramblings of some dolt on the internet.