One bank required a social security number and signature from one of the parties to the dispute despite the fact that the funds do not necessarily belong a particular party until the dispute is settled.  

I did notice that there were large social gatherings on some weekends.

If it's an area you don't feel comfortable working in, socializing in or just being there period...why would you invest there?  

The best way to start fixer uppers is by social networking.

I lived in Germany for a while and appreciate the strong social safety net and lengthy vacation times. 

The true is, you do not need a "mentor" and you should not put yourself out there to be "used" any relationship should be mutually beneficial.The best advice I can offer is to seek out the most legit investor groups in your area, and on social media.

.- Check social media.

Most have lower social standards than your normal tenants and will do things without considering the consequences.

I want to take to my social networks and offer a referral fee to friends/family/colleagues for anyone who can help me find a qualified tenant.  

I would love to know more about your direct marketing, what mailers you send, your driving for dollars plans, maybe how you use social media, what lists you love, or just some crazy experiment you can't wait to try.