You might donate the car to charity rather than pay the expensive (insert pricey repair)...

Maybe a JTROS account or the account we save charity money in...

I give my heart an soul to that town but it has change a lot (and not for the better) slowly but surely I want to start donating to special charity’s and buy old properties and help out families in need.

I am not in the business to be a charity.

At 33 i want to donate 10% of my cash flow to charity and start an apprenticeship program with all my property by letting kids work off their student debt & providing them with their own investment property after completing their apprenticeship. 

Charity

They love to get good press by helping out with these things.I would look into those avenues along with charities,churches,and government programs.

So a quick question.If you were to owe taxes at ordinary income why not give a big chunk of that to charity??

I may be seen as particularly unsympathetic here, but I did want to point out that you are not his family or his psychiatrist or doctor or responsible for his welfare, but you are actually responsible for your own family's well-being, especially as it sounds like you live next door and this is likely an important investment for you, not a charity.  

I agree than ANY metal, should be piled seperate, and saleable,/useable stuff sold or give away to needy or charity.