I am lucky that I was married to a frugal woman that has been saving money for about 25 years  and that has relieved a bunch of stress from me.  

Funny since I've never gotten a FIRST NOTICE or a SECOND NOTICE or any notice from a woman ('ve gotten plenty of those from men) trying to buy my house.  

She saw this cute dog and started petting him.

It's easier to do with an empty property, because if it is occupied they want to get income information on the tenants, and they want to know if young children or woman who are expecting are living there, and if so they have them get tested for lead poisoning. 

I introduced myself to the the woman at the office, told her i was an investor looking for a probate list.

As recently as three years ago I overheard a lender telling a pregnant woman that she couldn't get a mortgage until she had a baby, returned to work, and got her first pay-stub -- that's break room BS that's probably from 1955 that is still being repeated!

Then when they were proven wrong by the guy you speak of, they said he could never beat that crooked woman in general elections. 

Congrats on your mailing campaign. care to share the details of the situation the woman was in that you already determined you couldnt help her out?

The woman is willing to sell at a discount to avoid realtor fees. 

Welcome to BP Vetrice Jones, I can identify with my children striving and leaving behind a legacy of successful young woman.