Hey all, I got banned from the messaging for "spamming."

"Mom and pop" investors aren't going anywhere no matter what they tell you, and you don't need to spend $20, $50, $100, or $1000 a month on some guru's course to learn that.Do a search on the forums and the BiggerPockets Blog for "hedge funds" and you'll find plenty of great discussion and fantastic articles that will prove to be helpful to you on the topic.Otherwise, your post tackles two different topics -- hedge funds pushing out investors and the fiscal cliff.

Is it to spam emails or for hidden fees or ?????

I started listening to the BP podcast, joined the website and have begun to take my education about investing more seriously before I tackle project number two and beyond. 

Few ways to tackle this:First is travel to the unit and do it yourself.

How can I do more without having to spend more.For example, just dealing  with actually motivated selelrs (so focus on quality not just quantity), you 1). make MORE deals, 2).You Close deals FASTER, and as they are actually motivated, there is a lot more meat left on the bone so your 3).profits per deal are huge, and because the only way to reliably get to the motivated leads... is by haivng them find you and not yo ulooking for them (you CAN NOT target motivated selelrs... not poosible.. they have to find you, 4) you cost per deal is 100% free.Once this is in place, you tackled the quality aspect of things. 

Do any of you guys have any advice on the best way to tackle on the NYC market whether it be wholesaling, flipping, buying holding?

Where should I begin to tackle this issue with grace? 

I guess I can't say I gave you a methodology to tackle this question.

There are companies out there who will work you through any issues you have with cold calling because, really, the majority of the problem is just learning to overcome your own comfort level issues and getting comfortable in your own skin.If you are not one who wants to tackle the self-actualization, you can get a virtual assistant and pay something like what you stated.