Currently looking for CARPENTERS, ELECTRICIANS, PLUMBERS, ROOFERS, DEMOLITION MEN, WROUGHT IRON WELDERS, TUCK POINTING / SIDING, PAINTERS, GRANITE, CONCRETE, IN GROUND POOL PERSON, CLEANING/DETAILING PERSON, ROOFERS (regular and wood) and possibly some others I'm missing.  

I'm a white female in her 30's in Central New Jersey.)80%+ of the lenders, wholesalers, investors and flippers I meet are men. 70%+ of the RE agents I meet are women.

Thats a very good point about the two men!

He said that for 4 baked men, it COULD cost up to $400+ depending on how many items the tenant has....Are there any other options?

My PM is saying that I would have to pay a set out fee which is having 4 able bodied men to actually move the stuff out the apartment and that is could cost up to $400+... my question tho is since the eviction was being filed for the rent in January, and I hadn't closed until the end of January, shouldn't it be the previous owners responsibility to get the tenant out???

What level of management will they are they expected to take on; collect rent or oversee that it gets done, unclog toilets or call repair men, renovate the unit upon vacancy or hire someone else?

It is true, men cannot properly multitask. 

I seriously doubt that this is the case in most out of state rental markets, unless perhaps you are looking in class A neighborhoods.Con: You can't as easily or practically as a newbie buy under market value and force appreciation.Con: You can't obtain favorable lending terms through house hacking.Con: You have to pay everyone to do everything for you, which not only cuts into your profits but also robs you of learning the business hands on.Con: Lots of cons ... con men and women telling you everything that you want to hear to sell you the dream and take your money.

Neighbor states that there are young men who loiter outside all the time, sit in cars all the time, etc...When receiving complaints I have driven by and find the property has 1-3 cars but no one outside and nothing like the situation he describes.  

They have experience managing repair men and tenants.