No amount of financial or real estate aspirations or achievements can take the place of the emotional needs of a spouse and she is telling you point blank to fix this issue.

I am looking for opportunity to be successful what are the things I need to look for in multifamily eight units or more?

There are ample blogs, podcasts, and books that can help fill in some of these blanks for you. 

Yeah people don't answer their phone even after they call you , so you gotta stare that list in the face power out follow up calls.

Some other resources to help you learn more about multifamily investing and syndications would be:Podcasts-The Syndication show by Whitney Sewell- The Apartment investing Podcast by Michael Blank-The Best Ever Real Estate Investing by Joe FairlessBooks-The Best Ever Apartment Syndication book by Joe Fairless (gives a very thorough understand of all the moving parts of multifamily investing and syndications)Apologies for the errors and poor formatting, sent this from my phone.

I have been playing with Michael Blanks Syndicated Deal Analyzer to see how different splits will affect the return and this is what I came up with.

Stare at 20 potential deals in each market and see if one starts to look better (property condition for price, ROI, or economic trends like job/population growth).  

Fill in the blank so we can help :-)

Great question Amber if I could recommend a few sources that help me understand better that would be:>Craig Haskell of Value Hounds>Michael Blank

Essentially is is a blank slate inside.