The positive attitudes on these forums are really inspiring for me to make sure I succeed. 

The lower income means they simply don't have the means to take care of their houses like those with higher income levels...it has nothing to do with attitude, although this too will be an issue.One more thing, "I am a softy, and

Do they prefer to get to know you ahead of time, or is their attitude "don't bother me until you actually have a deal?"

Depends of the attitude and demeanor of the contractor .   

@Abraham HirschRight attitude and approach! 

When they went back to the investors for an18%+  deal, they were turned down and told "I'll just wait for one of those 30%+ deals".At the end of the day, both investors came out of it with a negative attitude toward the next investmet.Part of me thinks that a lot of investors have already decided what they think investments should return to them.

Based on your positivity and attitude in your post I see good success for you in the future.

maybe I will consider moving in..Jessica- Thats not the attitude to have!

If the bank doesn't like the economy, your management, your attitude, or or they need to adjust their portfolio due to Fed Reserve requirements, they can accelerate the note and call it due.

It's great that you have a good attitude about it.