I started with where I live, there are opportunities in every area, every market so I didn't make it a huge marriage proposal type epic decision to be made, I decided to figure out where I live and structure accordingly

I'm not a marriage councilor so I can only speak from my personal experiences.My girlfriend of many years is happy with me being in the drivers seat and is extremely supportive.

Over 10 years of marriage and time in the Army we invested very little.  

On top of all that increase in income, our expenses/standard of living only increased by $200/month over 4 years, mostly just on date nights (which I think investing in your marriage the best possible investment, don't try to convince me otherwise.) and we have zero debt outside of our mortgage.

Much like millennials waited on marriage and kids...they're also likely waiting to buy housing.

Ever heard of marriage, old man?

@Amy FulbrightPartnering with other people on an investment is similar to marriage in a way.

Request to see the marriage balance sheet and then re-work your numbers..

It's literally a business marriage and as you know the divorce rate is north of 50% for regular marriages.

Everything I can find on HUD.gov or otherwise with google defines immediate family as: (by blood, in-law, or marriage) parent, child, or sibling -- or spouse of any of these.