I can lead a horse to the water but it's not my job to make em drink

Do you prefer battered women to ex drinks? 

We invited everyone over to our house to get to know them, sent out our rules and regulations to them, gave them our contact information, they met our kids and we had some drinks together...we have really considered their feelings along the way.The entire situation is frustrating. 

Just some food (or perhaps should I say drink) for thought.Also---Do you have enough electrical amps for the new unit, or will you have to buy another drop.Same with water pressure and volume.Good Luck!

  - We are all neighbors...I'm down with us all getting together, coffee, lunch, drinks, whatever.

Mention driving distance, you're biased against people too young to drive, visually impaired people, people who suffer from alcoholism and lost their license, poor people who lost their license because they can't pay child support, etc.

Stop hanging out with your deadbeat buddies that spend all day drinking, talking sports, and otherwise wasting away.

E.g vending machine (luxury food/drink items etc).

I can sit in my back yard and drink beer while feeding the deer that come by every night to hang out with me.

Many places are available to keep people off the streets if they're willing and able to follow a simple, basic set of rules like no drinking and no illegal drugs.