I will continue to expand, and I will continue this path that so far has been successful.

If you value the relationship and want to continue it, compromising with her would be in your best interest.

I would just continue to grind over the years until you have the ability to pay for the DP yourself. 

Take your time to clarify your goals, and be ready to continually learn and network along the way.Remember, each step you take is a valuable experience that brings you closer to success.

I'd recommend the following:1) Continue to stay at home to save up more2) Buy the crappiest home in a good neighborhood, with financial help (parents?)

We wish you continued success in your investing endeavors and we hope to serve you in the future as the need arises.   

Market is continuously stable and rents well.

So I saved you 5k and read my post above on why short-term rentals are a far better investment without the headaches of going to court to recoup damages or fight claims of being a slumlord (which by all accounts he is) 

You learn a lot about real estate and get exposure to a lot quickly, most big firms will pay for you to get your RE license as well.best of luck with CONTINUING your real estate journey!  

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