Your attorney gave them notice but you're asking a bunch of strangers from around the world whether this is the right move?

if I'm not soliciting strangers and they are all people I know personally does that make it clear/safe from being considered a syndicator?

I recommend moving, but that is free advice from a total stranger.

So I figured Id get the advice 100 strangers and see what they would do in this spot. 

Oral agreements are worth even less with friends and family than with arms-length strangers.

You're on a forum asking complete strangers how to get better applicants when you already have a PM?

We've had an issue similar to this in the past where a window was broken and the tenant claimed it was a stranger trying to break in or the result of a storm. 

You need to invest your own (or friends and family) money first before strangers will invest with you.A $3-6 million dollar deal for your first offering would have to be self-funded, I don't see another way around it.

Everyone you talk to, even strangers, you start the conversation by asking them what they do for a living or how they're job is going.

Hey stranger ;)