If unaffordable (compared to median income) it is a foolish gamble and a bad decision financially. people call this a lifestyle choice.If you want to spend on the family, You may want to buy a second home with a nice garden for 100-200k in the middle of nowhere for week ends.

We finished renovations on a 2 bedroom garden unit and have had a it listed for several weeks with only 4 showings!

We have a green rental with solar panels, efficient furnaces, good insulation, and garden space.

The only sections  of Home Depot that I would go to was the garden and grilling sections)  I'm sorry you're struggling right now, but look at it as a learning opportunity. 

Also, this same Airbnb guest attempted to put up a party tent in our tiny urban backyard/garden to host a graduation party for her daughter.

The site happens to be for Boise but it covers all of Ada County so it will work for Meridian, Eagle, Star and Garden City as well.

I use a hand pump garden sprayer because it's easier to apply the water. 

We gut renovated the entire 1st floor, the 2nd floor kitchen and bath and turned the basement into a Garden Unit.

The Garden State has many active members and they will have a meeting in Summit, N.J. shortly: Darren Sager is the organizer and I am sure you will be hearing from him.

You got a PM, snow removal and gardening included?