I believe there is a subtle difference between double and simultaneous closings regarding escrow but what has been the general experience of MA wholesalers with any of these 3 strategies for closing deals?

Also I would read am I too subtle by Sam sell which I think will resonate.

Or he might just be using it as a subtle tactic to pressure you into lowering rates by "showing that he can simply switch PM's if you don't give in to his demands".

My sense is there will be changes, but perhaps it will be more subtle than people think. 

@Daron Williams hey man sorry to here that first I highly recommend you read the book the subtle art of not giving a ****, second it sound like your are lacking something and trying to fill that gap with REI or money I say you need to work on your self first fix you thinking and then the rest will follow.

There are some really incredible people in the real estate world and so many podcast to choose from if you want to leave subtle advice.

Here is a list of some great ones: Title Author Financial Freedom through Real Estate Investing Michael Blank Am I Being Too Subtle Sam Zell The Way of the Warrior Erwin McManus The Wealthy Gardener John Soforic Tax-Free Wealth Tom Wheelwright How to Legally Raise Private Money Kim Lisa Taylor The BP Books… Various Best Ever Apartment Syndication Book Joe Fairless Zillowtalk Spencer Rascoff The Honey Bee Jake & Gino The One Thing Gary Keller Due Diligence Handbook for Commercial Real Estate Brian Hennessey Better Dads, Stronger Sons Rick Johnson

The distinction is subtle but can save a lot of time sending letters and making phone calls to people who are not even in a position to negotiate.

Some more subtle signs are; overgrown yard, the weekly free newspapers stacking up, overflowing mailbox or multiple flyers stuck in the door.

Obviously you must be more subtle with a pre-teen or teen, but it is still possible.