Try and separate emotion as best as you can from the situation.

I'm reading between the lines of your original post and for some reason I think there may be an emotional pull to this property.

Emotions have no place in this game.That being said, if you want help on specific aspects, like lead gen, or networking, those would be good things to inquire about specifically...

If the couple is fighting, emotions will rule their actions, not common sense or financial responsibilities.

I really want to jump into it as soon as possible but I know an emotional purchase is not smart.

I think it's more important to have something to do that is both financially rewarding and emotionally fulfilling, if you can find what that is for you.

Now surround yourself with mentors, go to local meetups, know your numbers and take the plunge when the numbers, not your emotions, are right. 

If you are okay with someone painting over your original woodwork (even though the lease says they can't) or ruining your marble countertops when they dye their hair (true stories) then you may be emotionally hardened enough to rent your original home that you have lovingly designed.Consider, also that at times you will have to carry two large mortgage payments and decide if you are willing to do that.

Being successful in real estate investing is no easy thing – it's not just about mastering facts; it demands a toll on physical, emotional, and philosophical levels.

Hi Jessenia,I've been in the game for quite some time and have many battle scars to prove it lolMy best advice would be to always look at a worst case scenario and start from that.By starting with a worst case scenario you will be able to quicker eliminate markets that aren't a good fit.I don't know much about NY but personally, I wouldn't invest in any market that takes 6 months or even worse longer to evict.Worst case scenario for example = Tenant doesn't pay rent and trashes the property.I would want to be able to evict, fix and re-tenant as quickly as possible.Time is money and I want to keep moving forward and not deal with financial and emotional drag.There are many markets nation wide that are landlord friendly.My business is based on Ohio and there is no mercy for non payment of rent.Eviction usually takes 6 weeks max and although I never want to evict, being able to do so quickly minimizes risk of that investment.Thanks