Beprepared and Proactively control the condition of your asset. 

Explain to them that’s beyond your control and offer support in the only way possible which is see if they want out of the lease.

As you found out, it is very easy for the person who has control of both to steal.

Is it just me or has the concept of house hacking gotten a little of out control? 

People don't usually put up a "Beware of Dog" sign for no reason...they either think there's a potential for a bite - thinking that posting a sign will ease their liability in case of a bite, or animal control has mandated they must have the sign up (usually more than 1 though - here in Wilmington, you must have 4 in plain view) in the case of an animal being deemed potentially dangerous....also they told you outright they are planning on breaking your lease by half a year....may want to get the ball rolling on these folks.  

You want to control it. 

As a first time syndicator which is smarter (better for the syndicator: maybe better for track record purposes, more $$, easier to control) for the syndicator, TIC or equity partner in LLC?

Mostly because their buddies, family member or associates control the market.  

I want to have more control over my situation, and take things into my own hands. 

This helps you keep control of your business and your accounts.