You save eviction costs, free up her unit to get a new tenant faster, and you show her some compassion by helping her get out.

I run my business with a lot of compassion and I pride myself on working hard and being easily available.  

That is a testament to your property management skills coupled with a sense of compassion.

Sorry you are dealing with this.I admire your compassion for the tenant, but I would not want to continue renting to someone who is hoarding and won't let anyone in to perform maintenance.

My family and I also regularly serve at 2 different shelters in my city, and 10% of my company's profits go towards helping the most impoverished people/communities in the world through Compassion International. 

First, out of compassion.  

PS- I've heard the BBVA Compass Bank has a 0% down owner occupied program now.

Showing compassion goes a long way and they might see you in a new light and do extra things to take care of the property or not bother you with issues with the property anymore.  

My antenna went up immediately when she wanted 'Up Front' money, and tried to use the religious, compassion card!

But, you recalibrated your compass and now your are headed in the right direction.Good luck with your new deployment and you can definitely sleep better at nights, focus on your task at hand and look forward to a bright 2016.