Tell him that in the future he must get approval before doing extras.Find a compromise you can both live with.

Had a general question for anyone with experience in relocating.I’d love to get a multi family that’s also a great deal but at the same time I feel like I need to balance getting a good deal but still face the simple fact that my family needs a place to live.So are there any recommendations for a good compromise between getting a good deal and getting something that’s good enough in my time frame?

You will probably have to compromise there.

I'm just not sure where to compromise, like the OP.

It is about a tenant who from the get go has asked for all kinds of compromises.

And you also have to consider that your exit strategy will be compromised since other investors aren't going to want properties in weak rental areas.

The elderly ladies decided to crank the a/c so cold (64deg F) that the subsequent heavy condensation forming on the old metal venting started dripping through the ceiling tile & dining room light.They finally compromised with a higher temp, bought a dehumidifier & have repainted the ceiling tiles. 

I wanted peace of mind and was unwilling to compromise my ethics and integrity, for the sake of corporate advancement, so I made REI my new endeavor.

But they are more willing to compromise on other areas like a repair/rehab check at closing, covering all closing costs, etc. 

Compromise is key.