Many transactions are hammered quietly too, do this or else and the accused party does that instead of getting hammered publicly.Ethics is not what an individual might define for themselves, it is a standard of conduct accepted in an industry that allows limited deviations from the norm.

The lawsuit followed the departure of nearly 30 Corcoran agents and accused them of taking trade secrets and client leads with them.

Communication and information first, accusations after proof of wrong doing next, and i'll leave that to the lawyers and stay as far out of it as possible.

Or, worse, have you  as a wholesaler ever been accused of the non-crime of "structuring" payments only to have your assets (bank account) drained under the presumption that the large checks must be the fruits of criminal enterprise--simply for cashing wholesaling checks from a cluster of small deals?

No accusation just a comment to consider.

Bob,You do not know me, and to hide behind a keyboard and and make baseless accusations is despicable. 

This will protection your accusations of discrimination as well.

Then you won't be accused of playing favorites.

Once had a real estate agent whose clients applied to a unit I had listed accuse me of discrimination, this agent sent me all kinds of useless paperwork trying to prove her clients income without actually proving anything, like I was supposed to take her word that her client made 3x rent.

This probably ends badly, i.e. family members accusing you of selling for less than what you should/could have got.