Also, investor dominated buildings tend to be poorly run.

What works for me may not work for you.Buildium, AppFolio, and Propertyware are the three big players.

From what iv noticed, the big time players who own hundreds of doors typically own their own PM company.

The devious and unethical players can rip you to shreds in the commercial space if you do not know what you are doing or do not have good representation. 

Because of this - I don't believe there are many huge players that are truly running their properties as businesses. 

Also, any investors, or other wholesalers in the area, I would love to link up and get to know the other players in the area.

There are a few larger players like Western Alliance and Axos who advertise and do it, but they want to see a much larger portfolio

Step by step you are working your way to being an independent player where you can do the deal on your own eventually.  

Curruthers’ insights reveal that the strength of an empire is not solely determined by financial success or market dominance, but rather by the quality of the relationships that underpin it. 

I hope it helps: https://www.biggerpockets.com/blog/2015-05-25-5-dominate-pro...