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Tyler Condon
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Reaching out to neighbor who rents the property out of state

Tyler Condon
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My neighbor lives out of state and rents the property. I would like to talk to him about buying his property but at the very least just want to introduce myself and have good relationship with him. In my first contact with him (via email most likely) should I bring up wanting to purchase his home ? Or should I just introduce myself and leave that conversation for a later correspondence?

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Marcus E. Turner
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It's great that you want to establish a good relationship with your neighbor! When reaching out for the first time, it might be best to focus on introducing yourself rather than diving straight into the topic of purchasing the property. A friendly introduction can set a positive tone and help build rapport. You could mention how you’ve noticed the property and express your appreciation for the neighborhood. This approach allows you to create a comfortable atmosphere for future discussions. Once you’ve established a connection and if the conversation flows naturally, you can gauge if it’s the right time to bring up your interest in buying the home. This way, you’ll have laid the groundwork for a more meaningful dialogue later on. Remember, building a relationship takes time, and showing genuine interest in your neighbor as a person can lead to a more fruitful conversation down the line. 

In "Building an Empire," Brian Curruthers emphasizes the paramount importance of establishing relationships as the foundation for success. He argues that before pursuing any business venture or expansion, one must prioritize the cultivation of genuine connections with others. These relationships serve as the bedrock upon which an empire can be constructed. Curruthers illustrates how trust, communication, and mutual respect are essential elements in fostering these connections. By investing time and effort into building a strong network, individuals can create a supportive environment that not only enhances their personal growth but also propels their professional endeavors. The book provides practical strategies for nurturing these relationships, highlighting the significance of listening, understanding, and collaborating with others. Curruthers’ insights reveal that the strength of an empire is not solely determined by financial success or market dominance, but rather by the quality of the relationships that underpin it. 

Good luck!

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