We will allow you to use a new employment contract as qualifying income 6-12 months prior to your start date.  

I’ve seen info about 403b loans (doesn’t seem like this is possible since I’m no longer with these employers?

I am having a hard time verifying military employment and pay.

The woman's income covers the bills, and the employer's reference for the man adds credibility.

Could be your housekeeper.I've found that condos that employ an on-site agent who lives at the complex typically have higher dues because it is not cost effective to do so.

The city is experiencing rapid growth, leading to a high demand for housing and employment opportunities.

Once you have steady employment, look for a place where STRs are allowed, with an in-law suite. 

You file for eviction and they employ multiple delay tactics that extend your court case 3-6 months without batting an eye, all while not paying rent.

THAT will, at some future date - about four years or so, put you in position to employ the mortgage acceleration strategy.If you have too much month left at the end of the money, well, there ARE debt reduction strategies available to help that at the expense of your credit rating - WITHOUT bankruptcy.

These self employed 2nd mtg's are typically based on alternative method of caluclation like profit and loss statements if you're self employed or the last 12 months of bank statement deposits using a formula to derive an income from these deposits (like 50% of all annual rolling 12 calendar month deposits X 50% /12 months = monthly income).