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Kay S.
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What would you recommend? Divorcing, unemployed, house not selling

Kay S.
  • New to Real Estate
  • Lake Oswego, OR
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Hi all - newbie here... I have quite the pickle of a situation. I was laid off from my employer at the end of 2023. Within a few weeks my spouse asked for a divorce. (not my favorite year obviously). Our primary asset is a house we bought in 2021 for $975 (3% interest rate). We have it listed for sale for$1.3, but it is just sitting due to interest rates. In an effort to bring ANY $ in to help cover the mortgage ($4600 including taxes and insurance), I put together an AirBnB site for the property and set it live, with zero expectation. Within just HOURS I had more than $6500 in attempted bookings. I quickly delisted as in that short time I had realized my town requires a license, but it sparked the possibility that this could be a great kickstart to my real estate dreams. There are even 2 gigantic "crawlspace" areas in the house that could be developed into additional ADUs. My questions are many... but the main ones are a) how would an unemployed person like me extract my ex-'s share of equity to get them out of the property? b) I was initially thinking short-term rental, which is where that surge of requests came from but it feels like a lot of work as I would be doing the turns/cleaning for most part so what are the pros-cons of mid-term? c) how could I build out at least 1 ADU while I was renting out the rest of the house so I could have a place to stay? I imagine construction noise doesn't garner tons of points with guests. Any creative ideas welcome thank you!!

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    Jonathan Greene
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    Jonathan Greene
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    In theory, your ideas are pretty sound, but what you are proposing is not realistic. You can't be thinking of how to repurpose the house while going through a divorce and without a job. Your first thing to do is to find a job to bring money in on your side. Divorces are not usually amicable so trying to get another party to agree to make money on the house (and move you out) will be time consuming and very unlikely.

    This statement though, "it is just sitting due to interest rates", is troubling. It's not sitting because of interest rates, it's sitting because it's overpriced. Rates and market conditions don't matter, if your house is not selling in a time when there is low inventory, you are overpriced. Reduce the price, make the sale, split the profits, and re-start your life.

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