Advising RE investing should come with a stern talk about the risks, stress, and commitment. 

We think you are overweight and unhealthy and will or are stressing the health system.

It could give you peace of mind as you focus on your family and move to your new home, without the additional stress of managing a second property from afar.Best of luck with your decision! 

I’m selling both of my properties because I literally cannot handle the stress from how horrible KS Yoak is.

Some people don't have financial situation, nor have the bookkeeping to track or maintain it.Again, I personally find it very stressful just thinking about living that way for the life of the loan keeping the lowest daily balance possible. 

This would eliminate the stress of managing the 45 day identification period.

hence, your strategy is good for you but doesn't make sense in an economic stress test to a lender.

He is an electrician and lost money that had a big impact on his life, set his family back a few years financially, prevented them from being able to buy the house they wanted to for themselves to live in, caused a lot of stress in their relationship etc.

Taking the time to get these elements right can save so much stress and headache down the line.

You're already thinking about long-term benefits, and it's great that you're bringing your contractor husband's expertise into the equation.To alleviate some of the stress, I recommend starting by focusing on quality properties in solid areas where you can add value.