@Myeasha JonesIn all seriousness, this thread hits close to home and gives me anxiety! 

I have a recurring nightmare of tenants putting their lighters up to the sensors, "just to see if it works, yuk yuk".

well the draws were eaten up by the mortgage payments, we had to put way too much capital down, ran out of renovation capital and I ended up doing plumbing, and all types of stuff to get this project completed. scary stressful real estate insanity, however like the most (magical events) I was able to get my passed inspection and certification from the city (I HAVE NO IDEA HOW)... and the buyer closed... this deal still gives me anxiety I know its has been bought and sold a few times since then.

Enter recurring charges and automatic late fees.

So, you need to feel a kind of anxiety associated with that, and a burning desire to get that paid and cleared ASAP. 

A little anxiety is normal.  

Don't be miserable (anxiety) before there is any reason for misery. 

.- Unsure/anxiety about whether anything is a "good" deal.- Read a ton of blog posts- A lot with conflicting info.- Listen to pod casts to try and figure out what others are doing.- Feel insecure that you don't have enough money to invest in real estate.  

Enter recurring charges and automatic late fees.

I agree on not letting emotions (fear, anxiety, etc.) getting in the way of good deals or over-optimism, overconfidence getting you into a bad one.