What made me upset was that I didn't even have the real option of saying yes or no.

That way if it happens again I CAN get upset about it.

But I felt that people got upset with me because as a newcomer I didn't know what I want!

John,I would not do it in a letter, I would meet with them in person and tell them how upset you are with your partner.

Since it is possible that they will secure financing to buy the house and potentially be our new neighbors, we do not want to make waves with them even though we are very upset that they outbid us.

How many times can you expect a landlord to upset their residents just so someone can take a passive "look"?

Guys - I've never added, improved, or altered a feature where someone wasn't upset.

I'm not actually not upset about that.

At worst, they could sue you for Specific performance... and the longer you keep the property tied up, the more upset the seller will be.So if you're going to do this, and you're using the GAR form, you need to specify like -1) Seller agrees to allow buyer to assign contract to another qualified buyer prior to closing.2) Contract is contingent upon buyer's ability to assign contract to another qualified buyer prior to closing.

The broker can usually ask the asset manager for concessions based on cash offers or quick closings...Never submit low offers without at least speaking to the listing broker, unless you just want to upset the broker and seller.