Is there a "neutral" color to pick, and is it better to go darker or lighter?

In the kitchens I always install granite, new under mount sink and faucet, and tumbled marble backsplash, I install stainless steel appliances only if the current appliances are not in good shape / ugly.Countertops - I agree with upgrading to granite, but would suggest a lighter color with more variation, I use giallo ornamental.

If the unit needs nothing then go full boat, if you've got significant repairs then go lighter.  

I clean the grease on the side of the stove and the stove hood and fan with lighter fluid as lightning speed and the stove and  hood and fan look brand new.

Any time you spray, err on the side of lighter coats.

Sometimes people don't want to face or believe that something is happening and find it easier to try to belittle or deflect the situation.On a lighter note... anyone here like seafood?

I'd love to hear from anyone who has come to these conclusions...I'm feeling a little doubtful, like I'm missing something...but honestly, I'm pretty sure I'll be much happier and productive with a high end, lighter laptop.

I'd paint the three arches the same as the rest of the second floor; perhaps paint it all a slightly lighter tone. 

White is so much lighter and refreshing.

But you can often get in much lighter using this scenario while you save up a down payment for a refinance later.Those are just some ideas.