Get thicker skin.3.

@Aldrin Meneses QuijadaAs a private lender I would not lend on this deal.I want the person to have skin in the game and if they do not I don’t take them seriously as anyone with no money zero experience can try and get a loan.You can try calling people but only responses you are gonna get are from scammers

Because borrowers pay for appraisals, not lenders, it's not skin off of Chase's back to get a bunch of people excited about refinancing to drop mortgage insurance. - Some folks, randomly, it'll turn out that the appraisal comes in high enough to drop mortgage insurance.

If I have a small amount of money to invest in a deal that I am syndicating with other parties, can I take a hard money loan to up my skin in the deal and pay the loan right back with my acquisition fee that I take for operating the deal?

I will tell you the things that irritate me:1.

That's a vague plan, and it looks bad for 2 reasons. 1) It's too close to what a realtor actually does, and 2) It just sounds more greedy to say "split the profits" when you have no skin in the game.If you have expertise in foreclosures, and want to make a legit business helping people get out of those predicaments, a coaching or consulting role would probably be a much better option.

@John Clendenon, as you can see, there are many, many ways to skin this cat.  

Today he texted me about how I'm already receiving mail and quite frankly it's getting irritating. 

I personally don't like direct mail as it irritates the sh!

I asked specifically about multi-family units, be he said it could also be used for SFH.However, I introduced this to my agent and she had some push back:"As far as the form is concerned, I do not think a seller or attorney would go for it - there's nothing legally binding in addition to no "skin in the game" for the buyer.