The job loss was news to me...

I would also check to see if there is a local news channel that would be interested in covering a "shady PM company wrongfully tries to evict elderly tenant" story.While there is no legal grounds (based on the limited section you posted) to demand the removal of these fees since they are clearly stated in the contract, chances are good that the company won't want to go through all of the negative publicity and lost business due to poor reviews.  

This is exciting news to me and I'm surprised I hadn't heard it before since my husband is a veteran and we've purchased several homes VA as well as clients of mine that I have helped.

Seller finance deals work when one of the following situations is present1- property can’t be financed with institutional financing usually because property is vacant (commercial property) or in bad condition2- seller will only accept an above market price for the property and by offering seller financing opens the universe of potential buyers to include people who wouldn’t qualify for financing3- seller is able to obtain a “piece of the action” from a buyer rehabbing the property and hence ultimately obtain a higher price.4- the seller has an existing low interest rate mortgage and wants to “wrap” the existing mortgage into a seller financed higher rate mortgage and pocket the differential 5- property is an investment property, seller has a low basis in the property because of depreciation, and wants to spread out the taxes due.Are you thinking of trying to purchase with 100% seller financing, or are you able to /willing to offer a down payment of say 10-20% .  

Often they leave before the nice Sheriff forces them, because they know you'll be filming the fun action.

All this is $$$$ going out to turn these "raw" contact's into actionable leads.

The only circumstances that my spouse can use my VA loan benefits is if I was disabled for a specific amount of time, killed in action or a POW. 

The good news is he had a very solid explanation for why this was all happening which is what got him over the hurdle.As you mentioned this is lender specific but 620 is the minimum FICO score required. 

Do what many others from there have done, Ohio market, STOP WATCHING videos, total waste of time. 100s enough, take action :) 

Any news on Grandma's house yet?