Always communicates, keeps the house nice and neat (makes everyone take off their shoes when entering the house for example). 

What if the shoe is on the other foot you have your deal lined up and the buyer is all full of BS and can't perform and you lose your deal how will you feel about being fibbed to..And what about sellers who make plans based on your contract to purchase.I would love to sell these folks that wholesale come up with some ethics here and some full disclosure so we protect the innocent.Just a question and if you guys think this is perfectly fine to do then well I guess that's your call and your morals and conscience   so that's one side of the coin ...

I was and am in your shoes (looking for money) and I find that those who provide the blunt answers usually make you think about what you need to do and how to present yourself.

I would love to be in your shoes and start having a equity build up albeit small.

No shoes, no discarded clothes you wore for the day, nothing. 

Now for the ones that they think how the dispute process work by going to these credit boards and listen to them telling everyone how to commit fraud to be careful you never know who you are responding to and now when you have to walk in my shoes for many years behind the scenes, please step forward if you can help, or if you need help.Kyle I hope this answer your question.Joe Gore

When they came for the showing, she had her sons take off their shoes when they entered the house.

May need to be made crystal clear to the listing agent that they are not to be negotiating a deal with the buyer.Keep in mind that I'm not in your shoes and neither me nor anyone else here fully understand this situation.

The OP made another statement, that if they payoff the first they willown the property, true if at foreclosure and you release the second, but by buying the second that does not put you in the shoes of the owner, you are a lender, a note holder.

I just put myself in the tenants shoes and ask myself if I would be comfortable with the condition the carpet is in.