Tell the family member that this was an investment to help pay for your son's college and right now you are losing money as rent is lower than the mortgage and HOA, so you are selling it. 

Really do not want to lose this one! 

yeah my parents and brother both got home insurance below $2000 that is close to that area, and they just renew it recently too, so I thought our estimate would be correct.... and the option period is already passed, if this doesn't seem to be good deal anymore, we can just back out of it and lose earnest money right ?

I can't decide if I want to pursue a lawsuit for them to turn water back on (and possibly lose) or if I want to eat the money for several months and hope there's water below me.

This is my prior home so I know what happens when you lose the mail key.

However if there’s little to no appreciation in the market I’d want to try to make sure it doesn’t lose value in the long run.

Problems in the past are almost always from the Airbnb bookings so I'm definitely not losing any sleep over it, but still scratching my head. 

While I’m happy to share lots of information with folks it’s very rare that I will give out information like my primary contractor’s name or the names of any of his subs because I keep them busy full time and am not willing to lose my own time with them to someone else.

Let her go, get the place treated so it is 100% roach-free, and then find a new renter.At the same time, I would have an attorney draw up a letter hammering the HOA for not stopping the roach problem because it is costing you money to continue treating and you are losing rent income.

I can't sell because id lose my butt on it.