That's putting your money where your mouth is. 

Midwest is another ball game, and mama always said don't open your mouth unless you know what you are talking about, so I'm going to keep it shut in that case as well, LOL. 

While I agree with you completely, at this point it's pretty much from your mouth to god's ears.  

If your serious,Put your money where your mouth is

The less that comes out of your mouth to convince her and the more she hears and learns elsewhere from an independent source, the better.This may sound sexist and unenlightened, but it's been my experience that lot of women are raised to want two things before all others: babies and the appearance of a middle-class life.

One of my core values is that my words match my actions.In street vernacular, one could phrase this as “practice what you preach” or “put your money where your mouth is” or “if you talk the talk, you need to walk the walk”.I have invested in single family homes and smaller 2 to 4 unit properties since 1980 - forty years - a lifetime - and have done well with these investments.This year as COVID hit America, I had a conversation with a young investor buddy of mine about Covid’s impact on rent, the conversation led to a podcast recommendation about Covid impact on multifamily investing.

If not, He will make money on the rehab and then get a chunk of the profits and you will get whatever little is left and a sour taste in your mouth.

A shaky foundation or bad experience, like you have had so far, will leave a bad taste in your mouth and may cause you to miss out on a great deal in the future.

You have to be serious if you want to change my design plan before we are done with a house and put your money where your mouth is. 

most people have an unrealistic expectation of value, unless you have put your money where your mouth is, and done deals to the end user, what wholesalers should do, is just get real estate licenses, and sell these properties legit, make a commission and move on, they cant be making a ton, if they have to leave enough meat on the bone for a flipper anyway.