Your post sounds like you had a romantic interest in her.

Decorate the place into a romantic getaway. 

I think the main reason I see people failing in their financial goals is that they either lose sight of the long term in favor of short term pleasures, or they get hooked up with a romantic interest that doesn't share their goals in the slightest and draws them off course.I'm also a firm believer in the concept that we don't live forever and it's important to reward yourself as well as allow for some pleasure in life. 

sounds romantic, navigating such different systems would give me heartburn.

You have to be related or in some kind of romantic partnership for the bank to accept part of the down payment from another person.

By that I mean you aren't purposefully intruding on a major holiday like Xmas (or V-day for the romantics lol), OR if you were abusing it to make the tenant uncomfortable.Honestly, I think you would even have an argument that this is an emergency situation that needs to be rectified ASAP, and doesn't require 24 hours notice.

I tell My husband we have to treat our guests like We would if we were pursuing them romantically. for example if they text us a complaint then stop responding this would lead to a bad review if we didn’t follow up with them - though we were communicating with them trying to fix it and they chose to go Quiet.

Only mine was a romantic relationship as well.

I'd also recommend making sure any romantic partner is on the same page as you and shares the same goals. 

There are big families looking for 8 beds and romantic couples looking for 1 or 2 beds.