After several years investing as an accredited investor, I’m moving to building my own portfolio of SFH and small multi-family that I control and add tax and passive income benefits for additional investing.

and how he likes to know that I respect that he's the captain of the ship, and that I trust him (even when sometimes feel that I'm right, it'll still be ok for me to let it go & leave it to him); and how important it is to him that he thinks I'm provided for, protected, loved,  & even pleased & honored to be his wife / his first mate & even his cheerleader /.... and as time has passed, I realize it's OK for me to let go of the illusion of control that I thought I had; and how nice it feels to me to be able to relax and be taken care of;And how what a blessing it is to have a good man who wants to provide, protect, love and lead / be the head of our household;  and how that for many [most¿] men that I've ever known not feel like they are being disrespected, or manipulated, or undermined (esp. not by their wife).  

But many people like having a feel for what's going on at their property, and find controlling their reputation and product is easier with small or mid-sized buildings.

I urgently need help to address this situation, regain control of my property, and seek legal action if necessary.

With my dreams of controlling a rental property next to me dashed due to poor home structure I started thinking this building used to be a home so why not flip it back to that and make some money off it!

Does that (and rent control) screw us from renting on AirBnB?

Also be sure to check out the difference between full custodial vs. checkbook control.   

Avoid strong rent-control cities like Oakland, Berkeley, San Leandro, Concord, Fremont, Union City, Martinez, Antioch, and others.  

Note, as an experienced landlord I was able to get control of the tenant situation with little issue, raise rent and have had no real issues with the tenant since.

None of these things are out of your control, how are YOU going to make a good deal?