I sent them a text with an informal notice that if I don't hear back from them about the changes in their arrival plans and don't receive the first months rent by tomorrow I will presume they no longer plan on taking possession of the property at which point I will make a formal legal notice.

Quote from @Audris Tien: Hi @Deb, just wondering what self-directed IRA firm you are using to do this for private lending?

And now your building a community and reputation with the BEST finance-$ there is, PRIVATE-$.

It's called "Investing in Real Estate Private Equity: An Insider’s Guide to Real Estate Partnerships, Funds, Joint Ventures & Crowdfunding".

Realistically, what would you want to see from a private lender?

And whoever makes the payments on the mortgage could stop, resulting in a notice of default, leading to foreclosure…making this a risky situation for the wife to be in.  

I'm curious if you have considered approaching local non profits that might want a private partner.

The law allows a private person to create a contract for a property they want to buy or sell.

.: Quote from @Xin-Ran Jiang: But when they bring up the syndication approach of LP+GP, that they will help me raising 35% down payment from private money in exchange of 65% share of ownership, I shocked.

I've noticed homes 30% larger than mine are paying about 1/3 of my tax amount.I know I missed the appeal window.