So assuming someone is well funded or well connected and can actually move the deal along to help the seller out of a sticky situation, you are okay with that?  

Most bidders now will NOT bid if they don't control the redemption rights.. and or they grab them then hold them hostage for a fee if someone bids on it.this house if what is described is accurate someone will bid the first most likely with or without the redemption rights.Where it gets sticky for this person who wants to buy it from his buddy.. is that if he goes the redemption route the junior liens re attach.. and there is no equity.

You have BP that can offer you a TON of tips and other people for their opinions when you get into a sticky situation. 

If you have a shared driveway, that can be a sticky situation.

They also left behind like new appliances (microwave, washer/dryer, stove, refrigerator), and had every outlet sticky noted with labels on what purpose it served.

Yea thats what im trying to do approach this the best way i can because i dont want to break any laws i know this has yo do with banks and proably get realtors involved but im trying to find the first steps on how to do thisI understand its a sticky situation but i wamt to have be a 50/50 win on everybody's side.

You may want to consult an attorney if it gets sticky.

I personally would not rent from a family member as it can become a sticky situation very quickly.

Any help is good help As Jay points out wholesaling is very sticky business legally speaking.

That area has been purchased by Rice University and will go a dramatic change.