His full time job was serving as a waiter at an ice cream shop, and he made our deal miserable - or should I say, a Rocky Road.Part-Time Patty will drop her drawers on commission because she's a weak negotiator - and she's the very last person you want representing you.

It made me absolutely miserable whether it was jobs, the company I was working at, or relationships I was in.

Yes, they s/b taken under consideration, but many high earners are miserable, and many moderate earners aren't.    

Welcome Mike Miser !

At this point the bank is requesting additional documents from the seller...One of the reasons in delay is because the seller's loan was transferred to a new bank in the middle of the waiting period and it looks like the process started all over and the new bank is requesting the hardship documents as well as additional documents which is making the seller miserable.

After this failed miserably, I realized to break down my big task into several small steps to be added over a course of a few weeks to build them up to where you want them to be.  

Cash flow is an after thought.Sure people can have 10 single family homes paid off in 15 to 30 years but that 1 million you think you have will not be worth 1 million by then due to inflation.I don't buy into the ( live miserable for 20 or 30 years like a miser until you retire) philosophy.I would instead look at how you can generate much more cash today to make investments.

Who thinks I'll fail miserably ?

Everyone was miserable and it was an awkward trip but they still went.

I tell myself..Friggin ape, step the hell up, because if you don't, you are choosing to live this miserable life.I have no idea how convincing I was reading this but believe me....It REALLY is a choice!