Trustin your PM partner is important and they will follow your lead, so don't expect them to provide you with your business plan. 

Nearly all of our business came from the relationships that our originators had built over the years. 

And this does not even involve business or real estate!

I’m particularly fascinated by how you navigated the Sacramento market and managed the rehab process.

I'm looking for a new source of investors who are in the business of funding these deals.  

If the agent you work with is not familiar make sure the lender is, so you have someone who can confidently navigate this path for you.

You are complaining after four months of trying in a brand new business that you didn't know anything about?

Yes, this is "tough love", but you won't survive in this business if you let it affect you:)

Your taxes are none of the ex wife's business and this would seem to address your concerns.I would also put her on notice that future requests for financial discovery will be two-way and if a discrepancy is seen in the other direction you will seek support from her.

Also If the names are correct i searched dca database and found neither license listed under the name or business.