A family with young children is unlikely to be comfortable having a stranger living in their backyard. 3.)

So let's do the following:1/ List the GP / syndication that you've had a terrible experience with2/ At a high level (and as much as you're comfortable sharing), provide a reason for why the GP / Syndication should be avoided from your experience (or an acquaintance's experience)3/ Any lesson learned to help future investorsLet's help each other avoid future mistakes and bring hold GPs/operators accountable. 

I would suggest to start researching Idealista, however even before that thinking yourself where you feel comfortable to invest and what your investment plan would be.

I live and invest in a classic "cash flow markets" (which has seen 8 years of steady appreciation and is hyper competitive and has very little inventory), and I would not feel comfortable to promise you quick and easy cash flow, certainly not within the time limitations of a 1031. 

I would put the student loan on an automatic minimum payment plus some comfortable, but not too large, additional principal payment (if available) per month, then forget about it.

You are definitely making this way too complicated...just relax and start over.

look at your experience level with reality in mind.I would want to feel very comfortable about those things before spending time on deals and money when i had no real capacity to transact no matter who the lender was.

You will do better door knocking when you feel comfortable, and when you feel comfortable the people in front of you will feel more comfortable and they can tell (but we should also not feel like you are dressing for your living room either), and so dress how you would want to dress, in a way that is clean, professional, but more casual in clothes that fit well and are not uncomfortable to tight or too big--  otherwise you will feel it as soon as you knock on the door.  

You have another three years to sell and still meet the requirements to exclude gains under Section 121.If you decide to hold the property and relax with a continued market appreciation and cash flow, three years of future appreciation is a gain that can be excluded when you sell within that time window.Because of Austin's powerful appreciation and positive cash flow, it might be better to hold the property long-term.

If I buy these lots—7,500 square feet with a 50’ width—how comfortable can I be that the person who buys them from me will be allowed to build a house on them?