I send her the HUD letter form 7399 and she has her Dr. fill it out and say she has mental health issues.

The I'll do it myself mentality to me is such small thinking.

Switch your mentality and when you hear them put you down, understand 1) they care about you, 2) they’re speaking from their experience and your results will differ greatly based on your application of this education, 3) All successful people go through this.

Mentally, I am prepared to start my first deal but capital is a bit hard to raise to purchase something in the NYC area.

Guys that are phenoms with spreadsheets have demonstrated that this is just mental gymnastics. 

I used to work in mental health/addiction recovery before jumping into REI.

Some owners operate with a "don't ask, don't tell" mentality. 

While difficult and uncomfortable at first, I've come to really enjoy it and I always feel great afterwards both physically and mentally. 

It's more than that, its about your mentality on taking RISK.

I didn't pay him anything so far.We didn't sign any paper because he came to my house looked into work, I gave him printed list of work, I was hoping he will add all this work in his formal document and send to me for sign, but instead he told he has employees working for him, and next two days he has nothing to do, so can he start..I said yes.So, If I don't want to continue, because the way he is working, he may take whole year.what should I do, how to decide , whatever he did in two days, what I should pay for that, also this is a mental harassment for me also, everyday is type of reserved for me, I can't plan anything.