Hi @Bryce Cover,First, congratulations on your growing family and your successful real estate investment so far!

and if you don't have enough money to house hack in San Diego... save up until you do.and if you want to move somewhere else, house hack there. 

He can fight the seller to still buy the property but you are out of the deal and want your money whether he signs cancellation or takes it from his pocket.Key thing is focus on your agreement / contract and your rights.

It's at this point many exit the real estate investing business. 

Go to NETWORK at the top of your screen and you can search for other investors and investment groups in your area.

Investment Info:Other buy & hold investment in Aubrey.

You can also check meetup.com or search Facebook for real estate investment groups, clubs, or meetings in your area.

Traditional lenders won’t approve it, and hard money lenders who offer this type of financing all the time look for experience, assets, or strong equity in the deal.Partnering with someone who has financing or experience is realistic approach when starting.

However, our current hard money lender only funds one loan at a time, limiting our ability to take on multiple deals simultaneously. 

@Wells H. you need to invest in the right City of Detroit Neighborhoods!