However, I have been having issues interacting with male clients as I have been taking and assessing leads (my focus is on wholesaling for now).

I find that in any interaction with bankers, it helps me to visualize them as a robot that speaks a different language than me--numbers.

These are usually folks who want a more "hands on" interaction with me and the asset from selection thru disposition.

This forum features a few experts in 1031 exchanges, including @Dave Foster and @Bill Exeter.Other solutions are more complex and not suitable in every situation:Monetized installment sales.

I saw that the down payment (~30%) on an 850k asking price was about 255k and wasn't confident that I'd be able to scrape together enough funds, but luckily I've fostered some pretty good relationships and it wasn't as difficult as I thought.

This person would make me money by gaining appointments because face to face interaction is where I excel.

@Eamonn McElroy @Basit Siddiqi @Dave Foster thank you for the advice and recommendations.

you've got to start with a real conversation, build trust, and foster the relationship.Best of luck!

Once you understand the pieces then work on how they interact w/ each other.

@Dave Foster  can help you.