Even though classes would all be remote, All of us were for sending him off to school and were thrilled when he won a lottery for the reduced capacity dorm.  

White sands, blue-green water, loads of tourists. 

Instead, if you you can "pay up" (pay more) for the asset because you have a predetermined disposition then you should pass that capacity to pay to the bank to get the deal done.

I wanted to share some advice and answer the questions you posted from my own experience being in RE in different capacities for over 12 years:Have any of you been in a similar situation where multiple partners were involved?

I am confused because here is what the data I find says: Now I'm no expert on the topic but CA is still the only place I've ever been where people pop-out of the scrubery to ask if I want a BJ as entire family is loading back up (including grandkids) from a dinner out...... 

Lock, load, fire, and repeat.

And or if the metrics are still there in your market now then by all means load up...

Get a box of the heavy duty contractor trash bags for the men to load things in . 

You've clearly put a lot into it, you clearly cared, so why build it all just to off-load.

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