I too appreciated your response, so your recommendation will hold a lot of weight. 

Ideally, just like any collapse buying everything you can is the right move and appropriating allocation %'s to not just buy the falling knife but buy weighted across the time curve is the route.

:Originally posted by @James Wise:  It looks like your reply might be missing or just too buried in all of the quotes...This is what he posted:well you did the heavy lifting..

What I'm looking for: Other women going through similar challenges so that we can share our successes and our failures and lift each other up.

Quote from @Paul Azad: Beautiful property Blake, and great growing area, i drove through a few years ago, amazing scenerey and perrenial vacation spot, would you feel comfortable sharing the structure of the syndication for the investors, fees, projected IRR, or time weighted avg returns etc from a potential passive investor perspective?

I love the idea of building something that not only turns a profit but also lifts up the community.

I have a wife and 3 kids and the weight of their futures on my back.

We do not verify identities, that would be a bigger lift than we are capable of currently, however it is against the rules to use a false identity per section 2.A of our website rules here https://www.biggerpockets.com/rulesSo anyone discovered using a false identity will be removed if they are reported to spam.

So you have to weight risk to reward.. and sometimes we have to eat one that we bought it happens..

Don't get me wrong, cheerleaders are essential - they make you feel good, are always there to lift you, and cheer you on no matter what.