You will find that police are pretty nice people most of the time and when confronted with evidence and facts... they are usually pretty much just people...All said, doi whatever works for you.

Tenants say a bunch of things and follow through on a few.I would congratulate and send a restaurant gift card of say 25 or 50 bucks when they close on their house.Just because you are family DOES NOT mean you can enter someone's private residence without their consent.I can see where they were upset and it's an invasion of privacy and a safety and security issue.I would take the high road and put emotion out of it.Good karma sometimes gets good karma back but bad karma will most certainly give you a confrontation and a bad outcome most of the time.

I'm not sure of the best way to confront, as in-person would be best but if/when drugs are involved I'd rather not. 

If you are not comfortable in a confrontation, you may consider using a management company in the future.Eddie

It is not the fact they may have been embarrassed but more so didn't want to confront the idea they are living at your property rent free thus far and their action to get back to their feet to catch up.Either way communication should never cease.One last note, it is very expensive to move so be ready for the fallout (just in case).I think you get the point.Just my two pesos.Big Henry

Just like apartment managers, they are always confronting tenants who are less desirable and cause many headaches.

I'm just gonna go ahead and manage it myself i need to learn how to take confrontations and have the experience of being a landlord

They told him no.I called them and confronted the guy and he told me his employee didn't know and that they were telling people about her place.... lip service....The apartment had previously emailed my daughter who her roommate was and her contact info.

I suggest that you confront the PM you use and be sure to check your contract for language that allows this practice.

When I confronted them, they told me that what they have in file .. strange.