I know that is the name of the game in SBA and it is a nightmare process for anyone that has been there.

We have been saving up for a down payment on an investment property, but we are at a bit of a crossroads with what step to take next.On one hand, we want to get in the game as soon as possible and have considered getting an LTR property first, so we can begin to learn about the ins and outs of REI.

Wholesaling can be a fast-paced game, but with the right strategy, you can build a solid foundation for future real estate investments.

They play this game because the guy has a criminal record so the woman applies for the apartment alone.  

Could someone please advise an actionable step or game plan I can follow to tap into my equity correctly (if that makes sense here) whether that's HELOC, Cash-Out or another strategy?

Decide which game you want to play.

Quote from @Matt Tortora: Fair point - but I will be partnering with someone who has good MF experience.If you are partnering with someone with experience in the game, your value to the equation is not equal.

The profit wasn't worth the remodel and sweat equity so we choose the long game and cash-flow. 

Starting later in life is no problem—real estate is a long game, and the key is building the right foundation.

I’d love to share some insights that might help guide you as you build your business and investment strategy.Step 1: Focus on Building RelationshipsSince you’re new to the game, leverage your wife’s new license and start networking with local investors and realtors.